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Look, Find, Give

This moment is full of things — joy and pain and fear and acorns. Nail files, tiny birds, clothesline and clouds. Only some of the multitude make their way to you. We think we see what there is, but really what there is is enormous. What we see is particular. 

 

Usually the world, as it arrives to us, feels like an accident or like nothing at all. What if, as an experiment, we imagine it's on purpose. What if we pretend, for a few hours, the universe is offering us things, curated things, things chosen specifically for us. What if, just as an exercise, we imagine she's left us a gift and go out looking for the gift she's left, 

then find it and feel grateful, 

then give it back.

 

Shall we try? Here's the plan for how:

1. Imagine there's a gift for you somewhere in the world.

2. Walk out into the world. (If you want to, take a picture of the place where you're walking and send it to us.)

3. Look for your gift. It might be an acorn or light through droplets or a pair of boots in a free box. Believe that you'll know it when you find it.

4. Find your gift. Take it home. Feel thankful. (If you want to take a picture or make a drawing or in words describe your gift and send it to us.)

5. Imagine there is someone who is waiting for a gift, somewhere in the world. Choose a gift to give them. It might be an acorn or a song you sing out loud while walking or a pair of boots you found in a free box. 

6. Walk out into the world. (If you want to, take a picture of the place you're walking and send it to us.)

7. Offer your gift up.

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The Grief House is not a replacement for skilled mental health care. We cannot provide acute crisis intervention. If you’re struggling to find the help you need, we are happy to offer referrals and suggest resources. If you feel like you might hurt yourself or someone else, help is available 24 hours a day from the National Suicide Hotline (1-800-273-8255) or by dialing or texting 988. If you are having a medical emergency, please dial 911.

Finding Us

The Atlanta Grief House Nickerson Cottage at Legacy Park Decatur 500 S. Columbia Dr, Decatur, GA 30030 Notes on finding us: GPS will take you to the center of Legacy Park. The Nickerson Cottage is a stone building with raised bed gardens on the south side of Legacy Park's campus. If you enter campus through the south entrance it will be the first cottage you come to. You can park in any of the surrounding lots. If coming in the evening you will see the string lights on our front porch. Nickerson Cottage is largely wheelchair accessible.

The Portland Grief House 7906 N Fessenden St, Portland, OR 97203 Notes on finding us: We are the green house on the corner of N Fessenden & N Allegheny Ave. Enter through the gate at the corner.

The Grief House works on and serves communities on land that is the unceeded territory of the Muskogee, Cherokee and Creek peoples in Georgia and the Clackamas, Stl’pulmsh, Cayuse, Umatilla, Walla Walla and Siletz peoples in Oregon.

 

We honor them as we live, work and serve grievers on these unceeded lands. 

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