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Home Body

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My mom was naked around me all the time 

it used to freak me out.

She wouldn't give me

any warning.

 I used to resent it

I'd walk into her room and there 

she'd be.

Now I know every part of her. 

I can see her 

as I'm here.

Trace every inch.

We carry our mom's bodies.

 I look exactly like my dad

but I have her thighs

we carry them,

the people we came from: 

 homes.

Homes carry us.

We're them, they carry us.

This house is a body.

 Right now I'm here

 tending 

to your mother, to my mother

I don't know if people notice it

 or not

but it's okay

I'm tending to her 

with these thighs

  with her flowers

& with candles made of beeswax,

which is also body,

which is just to say a home.



--Hilary Rappaport

 

 

 
 

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